Most of us would want to have the prefect relationships or marriages but we outlook the teachings of God in our relationships that we may want it to end up in marriages. Romantic love is too intense to last. Love is complex. It doesn’t strike unexpectedly, like a star falling from above. There are no better or prefects relationships than the one you will create. Jealousy does not signify healthy emotions but insecurity & poor self-image.    Everyone is accountable to his happiness in every relationship. Love recognizes realities; infatuation ignores them. Though young (just 20) I might not have gone the hell or relationships but the few ones I have been weren’t the best. Love motivates positive behaviour; infatuation has a destructive effect. Relationships on better than nothing basis are unsound. I am that person who doesn’t look out for beauty (facial) but sometimes it matters to me lol. I don’t think relationships or marriage should be based on age, I will go in for maturity because immaturity is a HUGE turn off no matter the age of the person. TEST FOR LOVE. Love develops slowly; infatuations rapidly. Not wanting others to enter relationships without knowing what they want and later end up hurting themselves, I want us to understand that falling in love, implies falling into with heart only. Falling in love will involve your head as well as your heart. True love comes only when 2 people have reoriented their lives, each with the other as new focal point. Love relies on compatibility; infatuation relies more on chemistry & physical appearance. Love controls physical contact; infatuation exploits it. Love respects the other person so much that it voluntarily puts on hold the desire for sex. Love will have a constructive effect on your personality & bring out the best in you. Love centres on one person only; infatuation may involve several people.
An infatuated person may be ‘in love’ with two or more persons at the same time! Odo which is love produces security; infatuation produces insecurity. If a man says, ‘If you love me, you’ll let me,’ reply, ‘If you REALLY love me, you won’t ask.’ If I am to present my relationship CV, I would have been a counselor by now maybe the words on your mind and I agree because you never knew these or had a little idea about it all the same it never too late. Read it out, work on it and let have the prefect relationships we have yearned for.

  1. Don’t ever beat your wife for any reason. Prov. 19:11, Prov. 20:3

  2. Don’t ever forget that your wife is your greatest asset. Prov. 12:4, Prov. 18:22

  3. Don’t ever forget to check the level of peace of your wife. Prov. 27:17

  4. Don’t associate with men that lack credibility and generational mind-set. Prov.13:20

  5. Don’t ever hurt your wife no matter the level of insults passed on you. Col. 3:19, 1Pet. 2:19-20

  6. Don’t ever wave off the ideas, advice or suggestions of your wife because of your selfish interest. Prov. 1:5, Prov. 19:20

  7. Never treat your wife as a servant. Eph. 5:29

  8. Never make your wife a negative case study before friends and family. Prov. 5:18, Prov. 21:23

  9. Never doubt your wife no matter what you know about her past. 1Cor. 13:5.

  10. Don’t deny your wife of sex. 1Cor. 7:4-5.

  11. Don’t be careless about the welfare of your home. 1Tim. 5:8

  12. Don’t compare your wife with anyone. 2Cor. 10:12

  13. Never cheat on your wife no matter the condition. Prov. 6:32, Prov. 5:20

  14. Never cut short the love you showed to your wife, rather, water it, and nurture it for effective continuous growing. Eph. 5:28-29

  15. Never disregard the effort of your wife, rather appreciate her more and more. Prov. 31:28b

  16. Never discuss the weak points of your wife at public opinion polls. Prov. 5:17

  17. Don’t call your wife unpleasant names such as prostitute, witch, fruitless entity, harlot, useless wife, bastard, rather call her blessed,
    precious, capable, beautiful and virtuous woman. Col. 4:6, Prov. 31:28-29


  19. Don’t be self-centered. Eph. 5:28, Phil. 2:3-4

  20. Don’t ever cook up plans against your wife because of your lustful desires.

  21. Never set up a family without having a family vision. Prov. 29:18, Hab. 2:2-3

  22. Never make your wife feel inferior and uneducated before your friends, family, anyone or even you the husband.

  23. Never compare your wife’s attitude with your one time girlfriend’s attitude. 2Cor.10:12

  24. Don’t be lazy to cater for your wife and family. 1Tim. 5:8

  25. Never allow money to be the bond of love in your marriage. 1Tim. 6:10

  26. Never allow your parents or family members to dictate the affairs of your home, remember, ‘’therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife…’’. Gen. 2:23-24.

  27. Don’t ever let your children come between you and your wife. You married your wife not your children, remember they have their life to live and when married and gone, only your wife will still be with you, to cook for you, comfort you, refresh your body, soul and spirit in the bedroom. Matt. 19:6

  28. Never hide any phone calls, text messages, or password to mailbox from your wife. Transparency is the greatest key to continuous trust and confidence in marriage. Rom. 12:9-10

  29. Never owe your wife anything, always give her the very best; best in love, best care, most precious things and that which belongs to her. Rom.13:8

  30. Never show a heart of ungratefulness to God and your precious wife, always and always be ever grateful for their presence in your life. Prov. 31:28b.


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